Q&A with J

Have a question that's not answered here?
Email me at jseverydayfashion@gmail.com - I'm always happy to help!

J, what makes your blog different than other blogs?
Although blogs are written by "everyday" people I couldn't find a single fashion blogger I could relate to. That's why I originally started my blog - to prove that someone can be fashionable on a very small budget and without the fancy photography. (For more about my mission statement, click here.) Most of the outfits I post are solely for the purpose of this blog - think of it as a magazine article, and I'm illustrating the story by showing you an outfit from my closet. A few times a week, I also show you what I actually wore, making it a combination between how-to and my personal style!

J, you are so stylish day after day - how do you do it?
For me, it’s all about planning ahead. I would consider myself mostly type-A and not all that creative, so I spend some time each weekend brainstorming, where I think up new outfits to wear each week. I shut the door, put on some music and seriously get into the zone. This is also when I take the pictures for the blog (in one chunk). I am SO not a morning person and I'm always running late, so I've found that having some outfit ideas already in mind really helps. There is always something to be said for spontaneous dressing – but I usually save that for weekends, and will throw something together and take a pic and post it the same day. Doing this blog though, and spending this much time thinking ahead about my clothes has definitely made me a better dresser! I recommend taking a “planning ahead approach” to dressing for everyone.

J. why can’t I find the items pictured on your blog?
The one downfall of being a bargain hunter is that the same bargains can be hard for others to find, plus many of my items are more than 5 years old. This is why I started posting pictures of my shopping finds as soon as I get them (to increase your chance of being able to find them). I would encourage you though to keep an eye out for something similar – the best part about fashion is that you don’t need the EXACT items in an outfit to get the same look. Find something that works for you and your budget (and the awesome finds that YOU stumble on) and go from there!

J, how in the world did you score that deal?
I shop often (about once a week), and in different locations of the same store, so that increases my chances of running across a great deal in my size. It’s also knowing when to shop or what I call "learning the retail rhythm." I keep an eye on how long items have been in the store, so I’ll know when they are planning to slash prices. I also sign up for coupons/emails from companies so I know what the latest promotions are. If you ever have a question about a specific item or deal, though, please feel free to post a comment under that item and I’ll let you know how I scored that deal.

J, what do you do for work?
I worked in corporate marketing for 5 years. My job ended in October due to budget cuts, so I am now working on a number of freelance marketing and writing projects, along with projects related to this blog (such as my makeover show on IzonOrlando, and my new shopping website, Shop J's Closet). For more information on my employment, please check out the "Disclosure" tab.

J. who are you and why are you an authority on fashion?
I grew up in Kansas. I graduated from the University of Kansas in 2005 with a BS in Journalism and a BA in Communication Studies. I moved to Boston after school and lived there for 4 years. I recently moved to Orlando and absolutely love it here.

One of the funny things about this blog is that I'm really not an authority on fashion. That's part of the appeal - I am just an average girl, so if I can do this stuff, then you guys definitely can too! My sense of style is completely self-taught. I didn’t grow up fashionable, no one in my family is particularly interested in it. For some reason in college I started experimenting and really started to love the creative outlet it provides. I also paint (see pics below), but fashion is a way to wear your art, literally, and express how you’re feeling every single day.

J, what size do you wear?
I’m 5’7” and I wear a size 0 on top and a size 2 on the bottom. I wear a size 26 in jeans. Places like H&M and Forever 21 are junior's sizing and run small, so I'm usually a 4-6 or a M at those stores. And my least favorite part about my body - I wear a 9.5 in most brands for shoes.

A note about this: please don’t feel like you need to be the same size as me to wear all the outfits I post! No matter what your size, you can use the color palette for inspiration and look for similar pieces that fit your body specifically. Let me know if you have questions on what body type works for specific outfits by leaving a comment on that outfit and I am happy to help.

J, what is your exercise/”how’d you get those legs” routine?
This is such a sweet question and I really wish I had some secret leg workout that I could share with you all. I get my legs from my mom, and I think wearing heels helps tone your calves. For more info on my workout routine, see this previous blog post.

J, where did you get your tan?
I'm American Indian, so my skin is naturally very olive. I also tan very easily and I live in Florida, so although I use SPF, I can get quite dark. I do not use self tanners, tanning beds or spray tan.  

Xoxo,
J.






























38 comments:

janetha g said...

i found your blog via meghann's and i LOVE it! keep up the stylish work :)

Catrina said...

How do you know which colours suit you best? If I wore a pale yellow cardigan I think I would look like a ghost! LOVE your blog girl!! Catrina. ...http://loveittoday.wordpress.com/

JsEverydayFashion said...

Thank you Janetha, so glad you like it!

Catrina, I don't have a method really other than trying it on before I buy it to make sure it looks okay. Yellow is a hard color though - different shades suit different people!

Paula said...

LOVE LOVE LOVE your blog and your style! I just found it through Janetha and I'm already hooked.

strivingbelle said...

Love the blog such an inspiration. Love your shape the clothes look great on you. I was showing my hubby all the fashion blogs I like and all the different kinds. He said you were his favorite you dress the best!

http://iwannaknowbelle.blogspot.com/

Anonymous said...

Love your blog, I am way too old to wear most of the clothes but I think you are really good with your fashion sense and love the fact that you show it does not have to break the bank. Mix and Match,keep an eye out, also, just for info I get some of my favorite stuff second hand- used that is, sometimes witih the tags still on actually. Thanks for being there for all the young women out there!!!

Anonymous said...

I would love to know what you consider the "staples" of your closet.. I see key pieces in some of your outfits and wonder what your standard basics are?? : ) LOVE your style, always fabulous!

JsEverydayFashion said...

Thanks everyone!!

To the Anonymous question about staples in my closet. I really think that "staples" are different for every single woman and that you shouldn't try to follow any list (including mine!), but really try to make your own. Things I can't live without are:

- white jeans
- cognac belts and shoes
- v-neck pocket t-shirts
- turquoise jewelry
- cutoff jean shorts
- statement necklaces
- pencil skirts in tons of colors
- ruffled blouses
- navy blazer

Kerri said...

I had to check out your blog because of the AMAZING outfits you keep posting on the J Crew and Banana Facebook walls. Gawd, I am so jealous of your natural talent to put outfits of such high caliber (looks-wise) for such a small investment! I will definitely be following your blog. Question - if I need an idea for an outfit, can I email you? Just bought a skirt I heart for $5 on clearance but no idea what to wear with it for a shirt since the skirt is so flouncy. Thanks :)

Kerri

JsEverydayFashion said...

Kerri, I'm so glad you stopped by! Thanks for following. :-) Definitely feel free to email me for outfit ideas. It usually takes me 2-4 days to answer my emails.

Sweetsy said...

Came here after your post to the J Crew aficionada blog and I have to say that I am impressed! You are a talent and have a terrific aesthetic. Your outfits are perfect for your fabulous figure (and those legs are envious)I am definitely going to follow you for more creative insight and LOVE that you accomplish this on $250/month! Excellent work..you go girl=)

JsEverydayFashion said...

Sweetsy, Thank you so much! I'm so glad you like the blog and thanks for following! :-)

jillian said...

i'm really liking your blog!!! i can't wait to see all of your finds and outfits!

jillian xoxo
http://just-jillian.blogspot.com

Jess said...

Hi I just stumbled across your blog. Its awesome! you are so stylish and omg i'm jealous of your legs :) lol . I'm not a loyal fan so keep up the great work :)

mbj77346 said...

J- you look BETTER than the stars! Love your "natural" talent and your great looks. I'm 55, size 6-8 and still love dressing nicely (even when I go to the doctor-lol) I'm pretty good at putting it all together, but how do I do it "correctly" at my age ( know you're not there yet)? Can't do the short-shorts or skirts for sure. Plus I live in Houston, so you're familiar w/the inability to layer much of the year. I'm a total TJMAXX shopper and have found great things there. Say instead of the tight, straight leg jeans, what would substitute? And one last thing- are tops getting shorter again- I sure hope not!

JsEverydayFashion said...

Thank you Jillian and Jess! :-)

Mbj, thank you! Dark denim that goes straight down from your hip to the floor is a good look for anyone, no matter their age (just ask What Not to Wear). For most people, that is a straight or bootcut type of jean. Jeans are definitely something that are worth spending more $ on, so I would try Nordstrom and some of their less-expensive designer denim. As for tops getting shorter, I haven't noticed that. I think they are still really long for the most part, which I love! You can tuck them, belt them or wear them out, it's great!

Anonymous said...

Love your blog! You do such a great job on your outfits. I do have a question though. I am petite and here at work it is so casual. I just wear bootcut jeans and cute tops with necklaces or some big earrings. Don't have the skinny legs so I can't get away with skinny jeans. Where do you get the belts? I'm always weird about those. Not thinking they will look good with tops I have. How do you know to put big or little belts with a top or dress? Keep up the great work!

Thanks for sharing this blog.

Erosia said...

Hi! I am wondering if you have any tips for wearing heels! Every time I wear them I can barely tolerate them for longer than 20 mins. I am on the verge on giving up on them permanently, but I feel that they definitely make any outfit more stylish and sexy, and would love to be able to wear them all day like other girls I see.

Anonymous said...

Hello! I just found your blog and was reading up on past entries. I loved the one about how to belt a cardigan. But one question...have you found that your belts needs to be a little longer so that you can do the cool over/under tie thing?

Thanks!

Carrie said...

J,
I have been following your blog and just wanted to compliment you on how fashionable you are! I have a few upcoming concerts I am going to and absolutely love the navy blue strapless ruffle dress that you posted over the summer (I think its from Forever 21). I can't find anything like it and was wondering if you had any other suggestions of something similiar! Thank you very much!

Amanda said...

Hey J, I was wondering what would you wear to a bachelorette party if you didn't know to much about the night. The invitation doesn't say much and I am going with a friend. Any heads up would be much appreciated. Thanks, Amanda

Angelica said...

Hi J,

I'm a 31 year old mom. I've never been a fashionable person. I do love fashion, but I don't know how to put outfits together. I guess I'm scared to look teenagery when I'm not or too old when I'm not. How do I know what outfits to put together and which ones will look good for me? I love that you have this website for people like me. I would definitely wear most of your outfits. HELP!

Manpreet from Aus said...

Hi J,

I'm hooked to your blog. Now everyday i come into work and check your webpage to see what you're wearing. I love it, everyday it's different and cute. I wish i had such creativity and commitment.
By the way, i would love some advice on how to wear loafers in a chic style(i think that's what they call them, they look like running shoes but a little more sleek!).
You seriously so awesome, i wish i had someone like you around me to inspire me everyday. But i guess u are through the internet :)
please keep up the awesome blog.

StylebyYvonne said...

Hi I am a woman blogger and I live in Ormond Beach, FL its about an hour fom Orlando, but I would love to do a meet up.

thanks Yvonne

Danielle said...

I found your blog after you left a guest post today at Pb Fingers. I love all of the great tips and tricks I have learned, just from the few posts I have read.
After reading your Q&A I was excited to see that you are also a KU Grad! I am a born and raised Kansas girl and just graduated from KU in December. I love finding fellow Jayhawks in the blog world. Keep up the great fashion, I'll definitely be taking notes!

Rock Chalk!

jill said...

I found your blog after you posted on PB Fingers. I have been in a fashion/clothing rut the past few months, and after seeing all of your cute outfits, I'm excited to go shopping this weekend! The outfits you put together aren't overly complicated and are very reasonably priced. Thank you for teaching me how to put a cute outfit together!

Anonymous said...

I really enjoy checking out your blog everyday. Inspires to wear something else other than jeans and t-shirt.

We are building a new closet in our bedroom and I would love to know how you organize all your clothes, shoes and accessories. A sneak peak into your closet would be great!

LeaVFrazier said...

J-

I have been inspired by your blog. I meant to take some pictures of the resulting outfits but ran out of time in the morning before work. However, I felt fantastic all day!

You are helping me to understand color, pattern and the importance of accessories. Keep it up!

Divya @ Saved By The BEHL said...

J you have such an amazing sense of style! I wish I could put together as many amazing outfits as you! Question, I know you keep your budget to 100/month, but if you could splurge on one item...what would it be?

JsEverydayFashion said...

Ladies, please email me if you have questions since I can't answer you individually here. jseverydayfashion@gmail.com - I answer every email I receive! :-)

Rebecca said...

I really enjoy your blog! I love all the pieces you put together and you inspire me to put the cute clothes in my closet to use. I get so caught up in wearing dress which is pretty much my daily uniform (in a cute way) because there's not thought that goes into but would love to add some more put together outfits.

Megan @ Healthy Hoggin' said...

I just discovered your blog, and I am loving it! I can always use new fashion ideas, and love the realistic approach you have.

Oh, and I graduated from KU in 2005, too! Rock Chalk!!! :D

myhappyhappenings said...

I have loved following your blog for a while now. Your outfits are so flattering and actually seem possible to put together. I'm curious, in addition to being very stylish, your make up look is also always very well put together. Do you have a particular skin care regime? Are there any makeup products you favor? Thanks for all the great tips I've picked up from you along the way! You make fashion seem doable!

Jane said...

Read your 5 minute makeup post and have want to tell you about the best mascara called Blinc. It goes on thick like false eyelashes (so you won't need to apply multiple coats) and best of all it is smudge and tear proof. To remove you only have to use warm water (no drying remover) and a gentle rub. It is the best product I have ever used. Wanted to share that with you....I love you site. Jane

Shruti said...

Loved the Q&A J. I found your blog today via a fellow blogger and totally in love with it. You have a great sense of style. I am curious as to how are you an 'American Indian'? would you please tell that? :)

ALH1986 said...

J I love your blog!! It's amazing keep up the good work in the next year.

Also I love the shopping guide section and as an avid discount shopper I wanted to share a site with you & the other readers I recently found.
Totsy.com they have 3 day flash sales for Women & Kids with most pieces under $20. I just ordered my first item a mustard coat (you look great in it thought I'd try mustard) for $15 I'll get back to you on quality when it comes in.

Anonymous said...

I have my prom soon and I need help about founding a perfect dress. I'm 5'3''ft tall, I weigh 119 pounds, and I'm ' curved' ( big breasts, tiny waist and wide hips ). I also have long, platinum blonde hair. What kind of dress would look best on me? Thanks . .

KT said...

Just came across your site and love it! I try and copy pictures in catalogs & Magazines with similar items in my closet. My issue is I'm 5'9 size 10, 29 or 30 in jeans very athletic build (not fat just big) and it's very hard to work with my body. Any tips for big girls to pull off your cute looks??